You can't judge a book by its cover

First off, thanks J for your comment. :)

It was really good seeing your comment. Hope you're doing well over your side!

Been wanting to post some photos but I'd decided to wait till I buy my own MacBook.. Which is when I'd move back to my house. Renovation is almost done (finally!) and I guess the part that I'm dreading most is the cleaning and unpacking part. Luckily I'd managed to get a few close friends to help me out!

Anyway a close friend of mine just told me a something that made me wonder..

Why is it so easy to cheat and so hard to keep a relationship floating?

If one person felt that they can't contribute anymore.. Why not just ask to end things amicably before moving on?

It felt like.. A person who felt complacent enough to move forward while still pulling onto the rope. So they still can return back should things go bad?

The person whom I see was the least likely to do it did it.. And the person whom everyone saw as one who will most likely do it.. Did not.

Guess that's where we start judging people. That also made it easy for those with the 'clean' face to do whatever they want because the people surrounding them will not have a clue nor believe they are the one who is being unfaithful.

Why do people do it in the first place?

Especially so for those who are married and worse, have kids!

This whole thing just made people lose faith in relationship. That should they be in a relationship again, they'll tread lightly and most prolly will not take it seriously. Which may end up hurting the other half.

If a person who wants to be in a relationship, should think about what they want first.

However, guess for some they will only know it after they have their fair share of fun.

Or maybe love just cannot be denied. Once you are attracted to that person, you just want to be with them. But as easy as it comes, the feeling will go away as well. And that's where the whole cycle starts.

Maybe that's why some of the people around me are single with no intention of getting attached. They feel that a relationship is too troublesome. They like their freedom and being single. Of course they don't fool around.

Sigh.. What happened to my friend.. Kind of affected me. Coz he's my good friend and he has that face that people will associate with bad guys. Yet, he's not that type of person.

It kind of sucks.