It is kind of true. Why do some people stay with their partners although they treat them like shit / doesn't treasure them / cheated on them.. Etc.
The heart wins whe it comes to emotions.. While the logical mind is trying to talk and convince the heart that she (I feel heart is more like a girl. Soft, gentle, you know, when it comes to feelings) should just walk away in the nasty relationship that is bearing fruitless results. However the heart doesn't wants to listen and ignore all the warning signs and that resulting in a broken heart. The heart may lose faith in future relationships and shut herself in, or it may nosedive into yet another meaningless relationship - doesnt learn from the previous relationship and get hurt again.
I hope those who are in a bad / meaningless / no future relationship, please try to walk away from it and don't look back. It ain't easy I know and I understand but it is better to break it off before it gets deeper. It won't bore any fruits but it will only cause you to be unhappy. Not point stretching the relationship any longer because just like the rubber band, the longer you stretch, it will snap eventually and you'll end up hurting no one but yourself. If the person did something bad to you once - lied to you, cheated on you, abused you verbally or physically, they can do it again. And it is even worse if it is a combination of more than one of the bad thing.
2014 is coming to an end, time to do some changes to yourself and your life perhaps? Do something for 2015, start it with a fresh chapter of your life, don't look back unless you want to learn from mistakes and not to run back into the arms of the person who hurt you ever and over again.
I have already prepared a small goal for myself and will try to achieve it in 2015. I am quite excited about it and no... It doesn't have to do with any make over or losing weight... I gave up on that thought long time ago.. I have a few goals lined up and I will try to make some changes to my life for once. And perhaps for once I will achieve all of them and not just one of them or none of them.
加油everyone for 2015!!!!!!!!!
A person who lied once will keep lying and never tell the truth. So when they start to tell the truth, who will believe? If the person wants to change, who will believe that they will or have changed for the better?
A person who can give out their numbers to strangers so easily just because they find them attractive or in the heat of the moment, the percentage of them cheating is there and trust me, they will cheat on you with the ones they are interested in or are attracted to.
A person who claimed to be proud of you as their partner but doesn't show it
A person who abused you is a beast who even though claimed to be in a bad mood or is drunk hence they're out of control... That is just excuses. And they will keep doing it and it will not get better but worse.
The above are not worth keeping nor staying with because they do not respect you, they do not deserve your love.
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