was looking at http://kevan.org/johari?name=ohime+nana and saw this unknown person by the name of zzz. was and am wondering.. who is he/she nia.... care to identify??

updates~!

tuesday 28.03.06 - meet jiawei, xiaobai and annkia 7pm @ AMK. bel cant make it.. so.. i'm the only CHIOBU in the group. kinda lik.. the beauty and the beastS. =P anyway, they called chris who was with his gf (michelle) and he said that dont worry, he'll reach on the dot. ya right.. by the time we reached the coffee shop, ordered our food and have a table for us, he's still not here yet. (i'm still confused about which to call a coffeeshop and which to call a hawker centre, and kopitiam is under which category??)

at first, he said his dad will send them over, then later he'll be taking a bus and a cab. -.-"

if you dont know how to tell a proper fib and WILL be LATE, just tell us ok. dont beat around the bush.

why go amk? because our bday boy wanted to try the popular crab there which his friend was telling him about. so we hailed a cab and indeed it was so popular that the taxi uncle knew where it was when you told him its opposite mayflower primary (or was it secondary) school. there were... THREE coffeeshops selling seafood and that popular crab! he recommended the one standing by its own because he said there's alot of people eating there. so.. we went to try.

first food we ordered was the chicken wings. not bad, quite nice but i'd say the one at bedok was better. =P

subsequently, the rest of the food came - claypot sea cucumber (i'd say, the one at the Soup Restaurant was even better. yep, tried it the first time at tampines.), hotplate beancurd(?) (thought it'd come in the form of that hotplate but i was wrong. not really fantastic but still alright lah. its alil spicy and the sauce was not bad.), prawns(didnt try coz i cant eat seafood but it seems delicious. quite big and looked fresh. can try that one), veges(dont know what was that veggies called but it was fried together with three different kind of mushrooms. ok lah, passable) and the last one, the star of that night's dinner - crab w/ beehoon soup. (crab was a female one, VERY BIG, quite meaty. the only fall back was the soup. i tried it and it tasted like the normal fish beehoon soup. they added the condense milk to the soup but overall, not bad. didnt try the crab as usual - seafood. but seeing my friends eating it, it should take quite good. hahah.)

well, we were eating halfway through then chris and missus came. imagine how late that was and he actually ate at his gf's place le.. comments from me? er... hahah, looks quite cute to me and chris actually made one mistake. DONT EVER TELL YOUR FRIENDS THAT YOUR GF IS THE POSSESSIVE TYPE IN FRONT OF HER. really. bad move.

went to meet a friend after dinner to chat up. reached home 12plus? tiring enough. next day, nearly cant wake up. always like that. cant wake up after wednesdays, mayb my mental clock knew that its nearing weekends?

saw that the pics were all quite blur... omg, am i really that lousy? >.<


ah.. a rose among the thorns... tsk tsk.


the food we ordered ^^


the reason why annkia wanna makan at AMK...


finally... chris' gf surfaced


the art of eating...


hmmm.. annkia's new clothes


concluding our dinner.. ah, xiaobai extra.

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wednesday 29.03.06 - met edwin seng 7pm @ tampines. well, was kinda late. took a cab down with dajie, coincidentally, she's meeting ailing there too and all four of us were watching the same show - ultraviolet. didnt book online because i wanted to use up the gv vouchers i had and just nice, i was left with 4.

u l t r a v i o l e t (UV)- it was set in the near future = everything was quite futuristic. alot of CGs and even milla jovovich (sorry for the wrong spellings) was touched up by CG. hmmm, cheesy lines (taken from an american comics, what to expect?). but overall, i'd say the show was all right. they made UV too powerful to the extent she could finish up all the baddies around her?! she looked more like she's dancing when using her weapons (guns and sword which was real cool.the blade was rectangular in shape and had foreign wordings on it.). conclusion? dont watch it. unless you only wanna see hot babe and CGs.


me + edwin seng on a DATE!~*

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last night's chat with edwin reminded me of a friend, who i didnt see for a really long time (9yrs?) when he mentioned that he went to 'The Bayshore' for a swim.

yep, all the pictures came flowing into my mind.

of him, the times he walked us through, when he threw the binoculars over and asked me to see the guy who was suntanning by the swimming pool, arguing about which guy was better looking, etc. really brought back some memories. it was really fun then. he, me and zhiwei. oh, and saw his cute siblings who was still very young then.

realised that.. if he's aint gay, i might fall for him.

oh, and nadya reminded me of him too. for some reasons.

and i was reminded of the dream i had.

had a blast of a time last night. yep yep, in game.

had a party of 3 japs, 1 angmoh, me and lil. they were strong man! never once we have to raise a dead body or overcure someone. then later, a jp gotta leave, and since i was sooo close to lvling up, i asked if he can stay till i leveled up. he said ok. omg~ i was over the moon then. hahahh. yea.. was stuck at tht lvl for quite sometime and i really need to see a change in the lvl number. hahah.

anyway, after he left, the rest was standing there.. waiting for .. i dont know. so i told them that i nd to go in an hr's time, can we make it a 5 man party? apparently, 1 of the jp (and d other who left earlier) understood english. only the 3 one does not. so he said ok too.

omg.. i can tell you, this is the first time i ever have a party with a mithra (kinda like a catwoman with a tail - sexy) who doesnt grumble/complain/demand/request (coz only 9 out of 10 miths in my party all do that... unless they are jp) and SHE's an ang moh lor. sigh.. i felt sooo lucky man. heng i get her instead of some others.

first time i ever had a five person party only and we are doing pretty well. lol.. thats the part where i started to do mb. lil n i were joking that the other players muz be thinkg "why this redmage now then go mB (magic burst)?" or something. not bad, my magic damage hit as high as 290! woo woo. hahaha.

but.. ya.. something is still bugging me.

after we have decided to disband, i asked the party to lot of the items in our treasure box. the jps just warped out without lot-ting, leaving only me, lil n the angmoh to lot. and she said something tht really made me felt kinda guilty too. to think of it. but i would say, that was the first time we ever lot of items in our treasure box when party was disbanding. next time i think i'll juz leave it as it is (but.... i see so many items there, if just throw them away, kinda wasted).

hmmm, made up my mind. dont lot le. the feeling is really bad nia. >.>

well, yep. thoughts raided my brains again.

was chatting with rx via msn on sat night and he was asking me what kinda guy i'm attracted to. i managed to list out some (oh.. seems like everyone know i play games only. >.> mayb i should start showing the other side of me that no one or little people knows? nah, keep it that way better. more mysterious. hehe) and back to the story.

would like to add one to my list. HE should at least be able to play an instrument. anything, like violin, piano, guitar, drum, anything as long as its related to music. i dont know why but it just attracts me so.

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anyone knows how to comfort a person when he/she's feeling down, heartbroken, etc?

i dont know how to but i can only lend my ears (still, it depends on my mood and how close we are). some people seems to have the potential of giving advises thou.

ever been in a situation wher your friend's crying her/his heart out to you and you felt so helpless coz u cant help them? cant give must comfort only to stay silent? and dont know whether are you helping much and giving the comfort they are seeking from you?

me, always. felt like.. im too lousy to help, to comfort, to advise. (the only ideas i can give are excuse to evade your parents, other half, etc. er and ya, to disturb someone, court someone, etc)

and you cant tell the person in d middle of their mourning this "ey sorry im not good with comforting words" right?

oh and the part where you found a partner and sort of neglected your friends and wondered whether do they hate you for that and ignore you?

i dont know about some but i guess, those who really care about you will only talk/complain (yep.. like me) but in times when you really need them, they'll jump.. no, FLY over without any hesitation.

was chatting with ah soon on sat and yea, he really 'touched' my feelings out. hahah. ok, he pointed out my thoughts and feelings. i did feel jealous and disappointed at times when friends (esp my very close friends) who put their partner over me. and come to find me only when they need me or when their other half is not free to meet them. abit like spare tyre.

but well, did feel all that but i guess, its because i was too used to having them all to myself? now i need to share them with someone who holds a more important role than me. i'll have to get use to it. yea, still complain and grumble but hahah, i guess thats that. empty complains only but in reality, i dont really care as long as u still remember me will do bah.

and oh yea, the thought of ah soon being snatch by his poo pooH also frightens me lah but what to do? life still have to go on and he need to settle down too. hahah. just hope they wouldnt forget me will do. or i'll die as a lonely CHIOBU ah mah. (aka beautiful old woman) hehe. *ouch* yea.. thick skin i know. so u hit me also no use. wouldnt feel a thing. hahahAHAH!~

additional note (juz remember): bian bian nan was askg me, if given 2 guys to choose from, 1 is good looking but poor, the other is juz the opposite, ugly but rich, which will i choose? oh, both have good personality, to think of it, sounds like the first is you leh.. heheh.. JUST KIDDING!!!! you are more like a mei nan zhi (pretty boy). hahah. aunties love most.

i was unable to give an answer, till now also cant choose because poor is alright, but what if he's very ambitious because of that? i dont know but i dont think i can be the woman behind every successful man. as for the rich one, ever read the newspapers? those rich man very playboy and have alot of mistress. so.. no thanks. i dont wanna feel insecure in a relationship.

so... i think... staying single with plenty of lapdancers and toyboys will do. muawhhahawhahahha...

oh.. chee chung said that i sound lik a man eater? -.-" (was it him or another friend?)

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btw, anyone knows where can i get an epilator?

oh oh! and those who shave their underarms, please dont!!! either do IPL or wax it because i read it in a magazine that the skin at our armpits are the thinnest, so u are actually thinning that layer by shaving it. notice those skin flakes that appear in your blade (is there? dont remember le), they are your skin. ( i think.. )

if IPL is too ex, then try waxing it. but recently i found out this new toy called the E P I L A T O R where you can get it as cheap as 50bucks. it like an electric shaver but i think it doesnt shave. they remove the hair by its roots and somehow it made the regrowth longer. ^.^

but long term wise, i think IPL is better as i heard that your hair will take 3~5months to grow and it wouldnt grow thicker as shaving do. cost more but more effective. wax = not 100% remove i guess if you are doing DIY otherwise under those professionals, it should be better.

ah ah.. more updates..

clients came up, brought their kiddos along.. damn noisy!!! wish i could slap and toss them out of the office! cant stay still, ran about here and there and made so much noise. omg.. i nearly thought i'm going crazy with all those commotions. bleh.. this really confirm plus choppy that i.cant.live.with.kids.