juz a thought...

sometimes when you thought you know that someone well enough but when they said or did something unexpectedly, you'll think that they'd changed. cause its not lik them to say / do that. or their behaviour towards you changed.

wher the fact is.. its juz a part of their 'behind' behaviour. you'll notice it when u know them longer. it might not surfaced in 2 ~ 3 years time (sometimes it'll show within 1yr) but perhaps.. 6 ~ 7 years later. it may not appear under normal circumstances.. unless the env makes them perform that behaviour. well, that's when u really learnt something about / from them.

you may wonder.. why some people, though are constantly complaining about their particular friend's character/attitude and yet, still hang out with them or even are best buds with them. well... mayb its coz.. they are friends? close friends that they'll overlook that 'undesirable' behaviour as its only part of their shortcoming?