I think a mom is very 伟大. Like my mommy, she is damn powerful. She can take care of her naughty grandson the whole day and still prepare dinner for us with him fighting for her attention. Even when she wasn't feeling well, she also managed to have the energy to look after him. On top of that, during weekends during her rest day, she will do the housework. Who dare to complain their job is tiring and tough? I think mommy's job is the toughest.
Waking up at 4am to make breakfast for dajie and mei. 8am wake up again to look after her grandson until dajie is back.. Which varies between 6 to 8pm, sometimes go marketing, carrying baby in one hand and groceries in the other. Which I'd tried and couldn't last all the way till I'm home, cooks dinner. After that then she will have her own time to read her book, watch youtube, surf the internet. If grandson is sick, even worse. He will get cranky and mommy will help dajie to look after him. Over the weekends, she will clean the house and sometimes she will prepare dinner. Did I mention that she has to do the laundry for the members living in the house? Except for mine as I do my own laundry.
Dajie also another mommy I felt really 佩服 and is definitely not something I can do nor sacrifice for. She's now pregnant with her second kid, has to work from 7.30am and if she's too busy, she will only reach home around 9pm. Back home, she must play with her son, put him to sleep and he doesn't sleep easily. Tiring can????
Ok... Moving on to another topic. When a couple are together for some time, and felt that their relationship is a little stale.. Do they try to do something to improve things? Which definitely takes efforts from both parties or do they felt tired after doing so and began the next option - turning their attention to another person of the opposite gender and perhaps, toy with the idea of maybe leave their current partner for someone new? Then the vicious cycle begins again.
Why is it that there are couples who fought so hard just to stay together and couldn't be together because of their religion differences while others who got it easy and still break up just because they are bored of the relationship? Just because they had it too easily that they were unable to treasure each other?